obviously i dont have a clue when it comes to this stuff over your side of the pond. but is taking a year out an option? i went to uni for a year but failed because of this:



the course was everything i wanted to do but i was so fucking bored of being in education that i just lost the will to bother with the work. my parents pretty much blackmailed me into applying because they thought if i dont do it now, i never will, when i knew all along that i needed a little break then would be 100% good to go.

like i said i dont know how it works for you guys, but whats the harm in taking a year out? you say your mom is paying for you; cant she hold on and pay when youre certain in your heart so that it doesnt go to waste? i'm £4000 in debt for what, nothing.